I ran across an article yesterday titled “Questions Couple Should Be Able To Answer About One Another” and it wasn’t from Cosmo. So, I was actually interested. I should have moved on to the movie reviews. Here are some questions.
What makes you feel most loved or valued? What cues indicate that you’re feeling overwhelmed? Who influenced you the most growing up?
I mean, I have more generalized answers for these, but I don’t think there’s a specific answer to any of these. Especially a question like, “who influenced you the most growing up”. I can’t even answer that for myself. I tried. Here’s what popped into my head, “Rick Dees. Chuck Norris and Bruce Lee. The Muppets. Cheech and Chong.” Oh. I see a pattern. I think I just had a breakthrough!
But seriously, there are some questions that I think can help people feel closer, like, “What was the best part of your day today”.
If you’d like to see the rest of the questions and info, HERE’S THE LINK to the article.